In the article which is
written by Horwitz, we can find the author gives out his point of view that in
nowadays, more and more people eating alone instead of eating with their families
or friends. In the article, the author uses an example of soup to improve his
point of view. Many years ago, when people ordered a soup, the only choice is a
big bowl of soup and you can share it with your family or friends. However,
nowadays, people are more like to order a small bowl of soup which is just for
one person. There are two reasons why people have this change, one is it may
more fit their own taste, on the other hand, people nowadays are always so busy,
and they do not have a time schedule. So, it is really hard for people to have
a meal with others in a time fit both of them. This kind of things also happens
in my own life. In China, if people do not have something really important,
most people may choose to eat with their family. Although some family members
may come back very late, most family likes to wait for them and eat together. This
is not a rule, but it is kind of our food culture. So, when I was in high
school, I would choose to have lunch with a group of classmates and most of
time I would went home for dinner because I knew that my parents were waiting
for me. After I come to America, although I also make some good friends here,
but it is really hard for me to have lunch with them. We have totally different
time schedule and some time we even do not have time to eat. So, the only thing
we can do is eat together of dinner, because Chinese people believe that eat
together is the best way to keep the relationship.
I think the example of eating in high school is a good one. I remember in my high school here, or more importantly in middle school, it mattered very much where you sat and who you were with at lunch. Eating with other students then was an important social event.
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